Parenting is not just a topic to discuss.......!
It’s a true feeling that cannot be express by any emotion.
when you feel born moment it’s your rebirth...Time can feel like it completely
slows down, Tears That Carry Many Unexplainable Emotions overwhelming,
beautiful and even a little confusing.
That velvety touch, cute eyes, tiny fingers, pink lips, that bundle of
joy and divine happiness taking in to your arm which is your miniature copy
version. when you see your child is that the moment where everything else fades
away.
A New Sense of Responsibility suddenly realize for this new
life now,
A strong feeling to protect and care
Now child becomes the centre in priority
A deeper sense of purpose redefines in life
self-Motivation to become a better person
Thoughts about the child’s future, comforts, dreams, and
happiness
Thoughts about the child’s future, comforts, dreams, and
happiness
Now it’s time to be implementing all these emotions in to
reality. so many questions to be raised in our mind that how all will happen?
but don't worry at the starting stage all things going good automatically. Our
inner soul will respond on every new moment on beyond our thought process and
it will become memorable.
It is the moment where life changes forever and starts new
chapter for parents and child. on starting stage parenting involves physical
care and warmth, Moral guidance, emotional support and teaching life skill.
parenting is a journey of raising, leading and teaching a
child so they grow into healthy, confident and responsible person. It’s not
just about providing food, shelter, education and fulfilling their needs but
it’s about guiding, love, care, values, discipline and most important emotional
support.
As every child is unique it’s their own way so, first we
need to understand child's nature according it we have to modify our self. It
involves
✨Physical care
✨Moral and emotional support
✨Teaching communication skill
✨Understanding about right vs wrong,
✨Decision making
parent have made good balance on Authoritative... like set a
clear rule but with warmness. Encourage their independence with little
involvement of rules and regulation which suitable according their age group.
Giving attention on their activities that encourage them and build confident
level
these small steps make big difference on child's mental
health. On communication point we have to become a good listener instead of
speaker as
How's your day today?
Today's best moment?
That time when you get upset?
Are you comfortable with your teacher, friends, School/bus
Nanny?
Is today something bother to you?
What is the secret behind your happiness/sadness?
These types of question help to make strong bond between
parent and child. After asking such question our response should be involving,
encouraging and most important is not to be judgemental. our concern meant a
lot to them once bonding will unbeatable child never hesitated to share
anything with you. In today's world child afraid to asking or telling anything
due to parent's judgemental behaviour and their instant Interrogative reaction.
we need to praising their honesty even when it follows a mistake. Encourage
honesty by avoiding "trapping" questions “Did you do this?" Its
put fear on child mind so instead calmly explaining the impact of lies on
trust, and focusing on correcting mistakes rather than labelling the child it helps
to Increased Self-Esteem, Character Development and Better Relationships making
them feel secure rather than threatened.
some daily practice helps you to cross all boundaries. create safe environment to tell the truth without fear, if we notice anything abnormal in behaviour we have to try find out the reason. Kids need both affection and discipline from parents. No matter how busy you are Don’t ignore their feelings.
Children copy behaviours more than instructions.so, stop become instructive. make changes in yourself. Make sure your workload lease effect on them. We have to avoid social media or screen time in front of child. Try Control your mood swings as child do what they see. Spend at least 30 mins of quality time daily do physical activity that develops motor skills. Appreciate efforts, not just results...! We understand them winning or losing is a part of game, participating is half victory. Give a good try also a part of boosting confidence, Mistakes are proof that you are trying, never afraid of mistake because every mistake teaches us a lesson of life.
Educated them gratitude, respect for elders, showing love for young ones, social and family values.so that they can stay connected to family root and culture. Develop kindness and responsibility. never say no to their demands instead asking some question related for their unusual demand and let them realised or understand that their demand is not valid. It helps to create self-awareness in them about their stubbornness and insistence are valid or not. create safe environment to tell the truth without fear, Always use positive affirmation like...
✨No matter what we trust you.
✨You are capable of achieving your goals.
✨We believe you.
✨Mistakes help you to learn and grow.
✨You are capable and strong.
✨We proud of you.
It built confidence level and more belief and faith toward us this helps to create attachment and strengthens relationships. Involving them Physical Development Activities, Healthy Eating Habits, Mental health according to their age group. Not forcefully but by their focus of interest and teaching them importance of the topic.
Teach them Spiritual values so they can Connect them Meditation, mindfulness, prayer, spending time in nature it has power of healing. child become Loveable, peace maker, truthful, learn forgiveness, and non-violence behaviour it creates opportunity for growth very easily. Allow them to take decision and make choice helps build their self-confidence and decision-making skills. Respect their decision and it doesn't mean ignoring limits or boundaries, but sometime we have to acknowledge their feelings, even if you disagree with their decision, ensuring they feel understood.
Its feel them for comfort zone where they can express their feelings freely. ensuring they feel understood. Involve and allow them in their routine life decision or some common family discussion Let them suggest or decide some time give them a choice
⭐What to wear
⭐What you want in your lunch box
⭐By what time they want to study
⭐what's your Timetable for today
Some children have less ability to control emotions, leading
to frustration, aggression and arguing but that time they struggling with
directions, we have to understand these Challenging behaviours. Identify what
makes your child anxious, happy, uncomfortable and sad, we need to admire or
reward good behaviours immediately to encourage its repetition, give hugs,
cuddle spend quality time Engage with Simple Activities like Reading story
books, paintings, carrom board, chess types indoor game and sometime take them
to nature walk, cycling, playing cricket, badminton. it provides undivided
attention, prioritizing connection over quantity time. Involve Them in Routine
Tasks where Make fun by cooking, cleaning, or gardening together. While doing
activities encouraging them to share their thoughts. Make them to prepare dairy
and tell them to write their feelings in it. They can classify their own
inexpressible feeling That's Boosts clear, Confidence and motivate towards
their goals.
finally, parents have to build some qualities like Patience, Forgiveness, calmness, Positivity and manifestation. Give your child unconditional love, and open communicating with your 100 % attention and positivity.
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